So, we've decided to not "try" this month. Any advice.?

We just finished our 5th cycle ttc with the arrival of af. We haven't had any particularly stressful times trying. I had been temp charting and tracking cm, so I know when I'm ovulating. So, this month, so as not to drive myself crazy, we've decided not to try so much. I'm not temping, and I'm going to try really hard not to pay attention to what cycle day it is. My big problem is that I get very prominent patches of ewcm when I ovulate, so I'll know exactly when that is. How do I not start counting days from then and start worrying about it again? We just plan to bd every other day for the whole cycle, not paying any attention to specific days. Has anyone else found it easier conceiving by not trying so hard? Thanks, and good luck to everyone!